Discipline: Managing Your Toddler so you can make him a good person!!

How to manage a toddler? And stay positive?! Believe it or not, Yes you can!

Your toddler is no longer an easily distracted baby. Right on schedule, he's growing up. It's exactly what he's supposed to be doing -- but it means challenges for you!

Toddlers are beginning to experiment with their sense of themselves as powerful people in the world, so they can also be defiant.

Toddlers are determined, so they can also be obstinate.Toddlers are exuberant, so they can also be impulsive about doing dangerous things.Toddlers are excited about exploring, so they can also get into lots of trouble faster than you can answer the doorbell.Toddlers don't have an off switch. When they get tired, they get more and more wound up, until they crash.

Here's how to manage your little maelstrom, so you can enjoy the terrific twos!

Managing Your Toddler: TANTRUMS!

Tantrums are nature's way of letting toddlers discharge their fears frustrations when life is just too much, so instead of feeling like a bad parent, or thinking you have a bad kid, welcome tantrums as a chance for your child to vent all those yucky feelings. And since tantrums are a sign your child is overwhelmed, remember that prevention always works better than cure.

Managing Your Toddler: Giving Choices

Your toddler needs some control over his world. He doesn't necessarily understand your agenda -- why should he? He wants what he wants. But that doesn't mean you have to give up what you need. Don't give in. Give Choices!

Managing Your Toddler: Setting Limits

Setting limits is one of the most important skills of parenting. Get your kids to follow rules by setting some specific rules for them which would help them in achieving their goals.. If we do it right, our kids will internalize the ability to set limits for themselves, which is otherwise known as self-discipline.

Managing Your Toddler: Positive Discipline

Discipline that works. Your kids will be so well-behaved and cooperative that gentle guidance will suffice. And you don't even have to be the bad guy!

Managing Your Toddler: Timeouts?

Timeouts are great to give yourself a little space so you can calm down. But using them on your kid? They don't work with most kids, and they don't work with any kid for long -- at least not without damaging your relationship.

Managing Your Toddler: Spanking and Discipline

Should you spank your toddler? Not if you want a cooperative, responsible, considerate child who grows up with self-discipline.

Managing Your Toddler: Handling Your Own Anger

"This is the best webpage I’ve found so far on what to do when you, the parent, are angry. Most say something like, 'Deal positively with your anger!' which makes me say, “Like HOW?” This page makes it pretty clear how."

-Milkbreath & Me

Two year olds like to throw things. They throw when they're happy and they throw when they're upset. They also hit their parents and their siblings. Our job? To help them get through this normal developmental phase by teaching them the difference between what they may and may not do - over and over again - until they learn what they need to learn. How? By accepting their feelings even as we stop and redirect their unacceptable behavior.